Ireland is one of the most romantic wedding destinations in the world — and it is even better when it is intimate. More couples than ever are choosing micro weddings: celebrations of 50 guests or fewer, where every person in the room truly matters.
But finding the right venue is not easy. Most Irish wedding venues are built for 150+ guests, and many have guest minimums that rule out smaller celebrations entirely. The phone call where you say "actually, we're only having twenty" should not feel like an apology.
We have verified every venue in this guide to confirm they genuinely welcome small weddings — no awkward phone calls, no minimum spend surprises. Whether you are dreaming of a castle elopement for two or a country house celebration for forty, here are Ireland's best micro wedding venues.
Castle venues
Few countries do castle weddings quite like Ireland. With more castles per square mile than almost anywhere in Europe, you are not short of options. And when your guest list is small, the fairytale becomes surprisingly affordable.
Lisheen Castle, Co. Tipperary
Up to 16 guests. From €12,740. Exclusive use. A beautifully restored 19th-century castle that is entirely yours — turrets, grounds, and all. Ideal for couples who want the full fairytale with their closest people.
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Lisheen Castle Rental
Moyne, Co. Tipperary
Springfield Castle, Co. Limerick
Up to 25 guests. Exclusive use. A 13th-century castle on two hundred acres near Adare. Listed in the Irish Times Top Ten Castles in Ireland. Perfect for a weekend celebration where everyone stays under the same roof.
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Springfield Castle
Dromcolliher, Co. Limerick
Fanningstown Castle, Co. Limerick
Up to 10 guests. Exclusive use. For the tiniest of micro weddings — an actual castle for you and your nearest ten. A 12th-century tower with 19th-century interiors, located near the picture-postcard village of Adare.
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Fanningstown Castle
Adare, Co. Limerick
Wilton Castle, Co. Wexford
Exclusive use with accommodation. A stunning medieval castle dating to 1247, set on the banks of the Boro River with beautiful grounds and woodland. Rated 4.9 on Google, with couples praising the intimate atmosphere and authentic character.
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Wilton Castle
Enniscorthy, Co. Wexford
Dripsey Castle Estate, Co. Cork
Exclusive use with accommodation. A romantic medieval castle and Georgian mansion on a private 110-acre estate, just twenty-five minutes from Cork City. Both indoor and outdoor ceremony options. Rated 4.9.
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Dripsey Castle Estate
Dripsey, Co. Cork
The wedding industry was not built for small weddings. But these venues were.
Country houses and estates
Exclusive-use country houses are Ireland's secret weapon for micro weddings. These are not hotels — they are private homes with extraordinary kitchens, run by families who remember your name. When your guests sleep under the same roof, the whole weekend becomes the celebration.
Rossnaree House, Co. Meath
Rated 5.0. Exclusive use with accommodation. An elegant estate overlooking the River Boyne in the heart of one of Ireland's most storied landscapes. Five bespoke bedrooms, curated experiences from wood-fired dining to yoga, and proximity to the prehistoric monuments at Newgrange.
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Rossnaree House & Gardens
Slane, Co. Meath
Cloughjordan House, Co. Tipperary
From €65 per head. Exclusive use. Rated 4.9. An eight-hundred-year-old French-style manor known for exceptional farm-to-table food — vegetables from the estate gardens, bread baked that morning. One of Ireland's most beloved intimate wedding venues, and one of the most affordable at this level.
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Cloughjordan House
Cloughjordan, Co. Tipperary
Ballyrafter House, Co. Waterford
Exclusive use. Ten bedrooms on fifteen acres. A lovingly restored country house with both indoor and outdoor wedding spaces and views of the Knockmealdown Mountains. Set at the edge of historic Lismore.
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Ballyrafter House
Lismore, Co. Waterford
Trudder Lodge, Co. Wicklow
Exclusive use. A stunning Georgian Palladian country house built around 1835, set on ten acres of mature woodland gardens just south of Dublin. Takes a maximum of fifteen weddings per year — a single-wedding-per-week policy that ensures every couple gets the venue's full attention.
Sallymount House, Co. Limerick
Rated 5.0. Exclusive use with accommodation. A beautifully maintained private residence in Castleconnell, offering intimate wedding celebrations in total privacy. Bespoke events tailored entirely to your vision.
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Sallymount House
Castleconnell, Co. Limerick
Preston House, Co. Laois
Rated 5.0. Up to 50 guests. Exclusive use. A gorgeously restored 200-year-old Georgian mansion in the heritage town of Abbeyleix, in the heart of Ireland's Hidden Heartlands. Six en-suite bedrooms sleeping fourteen, with dining for fifty and multiple reception rooms.
Barns and rural charm
Rustic does not have to mean huge. Ireland's best barn venues prove that character, warmth, and a beautiful setting matter more than capacity.
The Barn, Tyrrellspass, Co. Westmeath
Rated 4.8. Exclusive use with accommodation. A charming converted barn with on-site ceremony space, gardens, and cosy eclectic rooms. The focus here is firmly on intimate, small weddings with locally sourced food. Perfect for couples wanting rustic character without the 200-guest price tag.
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The Barn, Tyrrellspass
Tyrrellspass, Co. Westmeath
Poulaphouca House & Falls, Co. Wicklow
Rated 4.8. Exclusive use with accommodation. A barn-style estate set on thirty-six acres of woodland and countryside in West Wicklow, just forty-five minutes from Dublin. The grounds include waterfalls, lakes, and one of Ireland's newest dedicated wedding venues — The Barn, launched in 2021.
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Poulaphouca House & Falls
Hollywood, Co. Wicklow
Intimate hotels and restaurants
Not every micro wedding needs a country estate. Some couples want a brilliant restaurant, a beautiful room, and no fuss. These venues deliver exactly that.
Caravogue House, Co. Meath
Up to 20 guests. From €35 per head. Exclusive use. A boutique guesthouse in the historic town of Trim, perfect for truly intimate celebrations. One of the most affordable options on this list — and rated 4.9.
No. 25 Fitzwilliam Place, Dublin
Up to 60 guests. From €145 per head. Exclusive use. An elegant Georgian townhouse on Dublin's prestigious Georgian Mile. Five-star service with Michelin-starred expertise in the kitchen. Ceremony on site. For couples who want a city micro wedding with real style.
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No 25 Fitzwilliam Place
Dublin, Co. Dublin
Fallon & Byrne, Dublin
Exclusive use. A beloved Dublin restaurant offering The Exchange — a bright, sophisticated space overlooking Georges Street Arcade. Artisan food, seasonal menus, and consistent personal service. Perfect for foodie couples who want their wedding in the city.
The Olde Post Inn, Co. Cavan
Rated 4.8. Exclusive use with six ensuite bedrooms. A two-hundred-year-old restaurant with rooms in the Cavan countryside. Award-winning seasonal cuisine from local producers. Intimate weddings of eight guests or more. If you care about what you eat, this is your venue.
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The Olde Post Inn
Cloverhill, Co. Cavan
Coastal and wild
Erris Coast Hotel, Co. Mayo
From €149 per head. On Ireland's wild Atlantic coast near Geesala. Thirty-one bedrooms with the Atlantic as your backdrop. For couples who want dramatic scenery, fresh air, and the sound of the ocean.
Turin Castle, Co. Mayo
Up to 12 guests. Exclusive use. A tiny medieval castle on sixteen walled acres in the west of Ireland. The only privately-owned castle in the country with en-suite facilities. For the most intimate of celebrations — just you, your people, and the Mayo countryside.
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Turin Castle Ireland
Kilmaine, Co. Mayo
How to choose your micro wedding venue
A few practical notes from what we have learned:
Visit in person. Photos only tell half the story. The drive up, the light in the dining room, the way the host greets you at the door — these things matter, and you cannot feel them on a screen.
Ask about minimum spend, not just minimum guests. Some venues welcome small weddings but have a minimum spend that assumes a certain headcount. Get the real number before you fall in love with the place.
Check what is included. At the best micro wedding venues, accommodation, catering, and exclusive use are often bundled into one price. At others, they are all separate. Compare like with like.
Book midweek for better rates. Many venues offer significant discounts for weekday weddings — and with a smaller guest list, your guests are more likely to be able to make a Thursday or Friday work.
Trust the food. Ireland's food scene has transformed. Farm-to-table is not a trend here — it is a tradition. Ask about the menu. Let the chef guide you. You will not be disappointed.
Frequently asked questions
How many guests is a micro wedding in Ireland?
A micro wedding in Ireland typically means 50 guests or fewer, though many couples go even smaller — 10 to 30 guests is increasingly common. There's no legal definition, but the term is generally used to describe an intentionally intimate celebration rather than a scaled-down version of a large wedding.
Do micro wedding venues in Ireland require a minimum spend?
Some do, some don't. This is one of the most important questions to ask before falling in love with a venue. Exclusive-use country houses often price by the full package rather than per head, which can work in your favour with a small group. Restaurants and hotels are more likely to have a minimum F&B spend. Always ask for the full cost breakdown before committing.
What's the difference between a micro wedding and an elopement in Ireland?
An elopement traditionally means marrying without guests — just the two of you and two witnesses. A micro wedding includes a small, intentionally chosen group, typically family and closest friends. In Ireland, both are legally valid as long as you notify the relevant registrar and have the required witnesses present at the ceremony.
How much does a micro wedding in Ireland cost?
Costs vary enormously depending on the venue and format. A restaurant wedding for 20 guests can start from around €3,000–€5,000 all-in. An exclusive-use country house for a weekend with accommodation might run €8,000–€20,000. Castle venues range widely — some start around €5,000 for a basic package, others are €15,000 and up. The key advantage of going small is that you spend more on quality for each guest rather than less on quantity.
Can you get married in an Irish castle with a small guest list?
Yes — and Ireland has some of the best options in the world for this. Venues like Lisheen Castle (up to 16 guests), Fanningstown Castle (up to 10 guests), and Turin Castle in Mayo (up to 12 guests) are purpose-built for intimate celebrations. Unlike large castle hotels, these venues offer exclusive use and genuinely welcome small groups without a guest minimum penalty.
What is the best time of year for a micro wedding in Ireland?
Late spring and early autumn are generally the sweet spots — May, June, September, and October offer the best balance of daylight, greenery, and mild weather. That said, Ireland's shoulder seasons can be surprisingly beautiful, and midwinter weddings in a candlelit country house have their own magic. Booking midweek or off-peak also brings significant discounts at most venues.
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